"So she kept pointing out how Jesus submits to the Father. Ok. Got it. So therefore... we submit to Jesus, and do what... ??"
She's not getting her JW facts right. She doesn't submit to Jesus, she submits to the GB, the travelling overseers, and the local elders. The scripture says that the head of the man is Christ. JWs don't believe that. They don't have a direct relationship with Jesus, they have a WT directed intermediary.
That's exactly how Christian-based cults work.